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Le_recteur27aty.fr, Male African Au Pair From Algeria

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Date Registered: 17 Jul 2012 Last Modified: 06 Jun 2013 Last Signed In: 25 Dec 2013
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Brief Summary Of The Au Pair

I'am a 34 year old Male African Au Pair from Alger in Algeria, I would like to work as an Au Pair in Canada, Denmark, Finland, Germany, Norway, Qatar, United Arab Emirates, United Kingdom, United States for 3 - 12 months, and I would be willing to look after children between the ages of 1 and 12 years old.

Contact Information For This Au Pair

Name: Le_recteur27aty.fr
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City: Alger
Region: Alger
Country: Algeria

Au Pair Information And Family Preferences

Nationality: African
Age: 34
Gender: Male
I Am A Smoker: No
Had Au Pair Experience Before:: 6 Years Experience
Have Got A Driving License: Yes
Years Of Education: 17-19 Years
My Height Is: 173 cm
My Weight Is: 145 Lbs
My Health Is: Excellent
I am Married: No
I am An Au Pair Couple: No
I Have A Passport From: Algeria
Speak Fluently: Arabian, English, French
Seeking A Family In: Canada, Denmark, Finland, Germany, Norway, Qatar, United Arab Emirates, United Kingdom, United States
Au Pair Is Open To Other Locations But Prefers: United Kingdom - England - Ab Kettleby
Family Nationality: Any Nationality
Would Like To Work In: Big City
Earliest Date To Start: 10 June 2013
Latest Date To Start: 12 October 2013
Can Work For A Period Of: 3 - 12 Months
Children Ages: 1 - 12 Years Old
Would Accept Single Parent: Yes
Mind If Family Is Smoking: Yes
Can Look After Disabled Children: Yes
Will Do Housework: Yes
Can Look After Children With Special Needs: Yes
Can Look After Elderley People: No

The Reasons I Want To Be An Au Pair:

Why i would like to work as an Au pair/ I love kids and i like to travel and visit other countries discover other cultures and experience new things and make new friends and much more : please contact on le_recteur27//at/y/h/x/./f/r

My Interests:

Dear Family, Hi, i am an active young man, I am responsible, reliable, punctual and trustworthy, i gleefully anticipate any tasks of caring for children, I am trilingual English, French and Arabic, i studied finance, now i work as a sales supervisor. I possess strong moral and ethical principles and a positive nature I have been dealing with children almost all my life, i am a very down to earth guy who consider himself confident intelligent honest spontaneous caring with a big heart easy to get along with positive personality with a good sense of humor, i love cooking sports movies music i am open minded i am drug/disease free and i am not into games. please contact me at: le_recteur27//at/y/h/x/./f/r Best regards

Family Letter:

Some advices for the families: one of the most important question you can ask your new Aupair is how to deal with children when they misbehave? make sure that your new Aupair know the answer of that question because this is much more important than asking him/her if they can cook or do household. anyway, i have learned this from different books and form the experience of my mother and other wise people and form my personal experience the rules are: investigate the reasons for poor behavior and be on the child's side, no emotion and keep your cool as much as possible, we must connect to their world we must cooperate, be flexible and learn to forgive,humility kindness and patience are the keys. find out understand analyze WHY they misbehave, ex: is it because the child trying to understand something or to test someone or try something or because they feel stressed or feeling very disappointed about something or just upset with the boundaries that someone else has setted at home or school or another place, sometimes they test the boundaries sometimes they don't now they exist we can help them by being kind but firm they needs to know that there are fair and clear boundaries and that we care enough to protect those boundaries they may not like it at that time but it will ultimately help them feel more secure, or maybe they have been teased or bullied or because they want want to prove something or want to feel in control or need something or don't know that they are misbehaving or because they saw someone else behaving like this espetially thir parents, or they don't adapt well to new situations and tend to have a negative attitude or they are shy or too emotional. so we must take in consideration the temprament they was born with, it is possible that they have been previously rewarded by someone for their misbehavior. are they looking for attention, negative attention is still attention so if they misbehave and their parent either yells or spanks, they have just been rewarded, If they whines, cries or throws a tantrum and mom or dad eventually gives in to make them become quiet, they have just been rewarded, or maybe the children can't concentrate while someone is talking, some children respond to very small amounts of stimulation even the smallest amount of noise annoying, some kids don't respond well if they are rushed so we must give them enough time of transit from an activity or task to another, ti is extreamly important to not criticise them and let the child take some decisions, we must give them choices in their daily life so that they feel in control of their life in positive ways, somethimes the child misbehave because he is hungry so keep a snakin the care in case you are stucked in the trafic or maybe because they are not hungry and they are forced to eat. or they feel that they are not accepted and loved by others or neglected. itís the environment in which the child grows up that determines how those traits play out, we must be on the lookout for the warning signs that your child could be suffering from. misbehaviors can be taken care of easily without any emotion required, and Without emotion there is no reason for the child to want to rebel in order to gain control or prouve something. somtimes the parents feel upset and embarrassed at how other people are judging their child and they cirticis their children or punish them , keep this my mind: ĎThose who mind donít matter and those who matter donít mindí children dislike change and need a lot of routineThey tend to have very fixed ideas and can be obsessive and stubborn, but it is not easy to convice a child when he is being completely unreasonable, at such times we never use logic but because it wonít work, we have to accept that for the moment this is his reality ,the child is sincerely convinced that his grievance is genuine and his behaviour was justified at this point. Over time we can do a lot to help the child by gradually challenging his thinking, but the key is that the timing needs to be right. He/she needs to be feeling calm and happy in order to be receptive. While th child is still upset it is completely the wrong time to argue with them, as they are likely to be more rigid than usual and will probably just become more entrenched. also, we must concentrate most on giving them a message of unconditional acceptance, sound sympathetic to thier grievance without either judging it or condoning their behaviour, if they can trust us to be on their side no matter what they will be more open and receptive to what we say to them later, and when they do something right we praise and reward them, sometimes they misbehave because maybe they don't get their reward for behaving good. it's very inportant to try to not draw attention to their mistakes too much, when they do get it wrong, we show them how to to it right, and give them time and listen to them make things easier for us and for them somtimes the child repeat a behavior over and over until he/she have accurate information, also it is extreamly important to give them epportunities to defend themselves, talk at their teachers and ask how the teacher handles situations. we must concentrate on what we think is the best for them not concentrating on what's wrong all the time accept your child for who he/she is Make your love unconditional, we must let kids know that we love them no matter what, When i need to discipline achild, i make sure i do so in a way that says, ďI may not like the way you are acting, but I sure love you.Ē Sometimes there are so many difficult issues to address it can seem overwhelming,it is impossible to tackle everything at once assess the situations realistically and focus on the more urgent problems and be flexible, if an idea works, and for as long as it works, i go for it, but if an idea doesnít work i try other things because what work for one child might not work on other kids. if nothing work i read learn more or Seek expert help, if you need help or have any questions please feel free to contact me at: le_recteur27//at/y/h/x/./f/r

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